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Keeping Christmas

A short sermon from The Spirit of Christmas, Henry Van Dyke (1905). Probably even more timely now that it was a century ago… while Mr Van Dyke almost certainly held a few beliefs that would be far from in step with either Catholics or Protestants of the modern era, he was a great thinker of his time.

Keeping Christmas

It is a good thing to observe Christmas day. The mere marking of times and seasons, when men agree to stop work and make merry together, is a wise and wholesome custom. It helps one to feel the supremacy of the common life over the individual life. It reminds a man to set his own little watch, now and then, by the great clock of humanity which runs on sun time.

But there is a better thing than the observance of Christmas day, and that is, keeping Christmas.

Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people, and to remember what other people have done for you; to ignore what the world owes you, and to think what you owe the world; to put your rights in the background, and your duties in the middle distance, and your chances to do a little more than your duty in the foreground; to see that your fellow-men are just as real as you are, and try to look behind their faces to their hearts, hungry for joy; to own that probably the only good reason for your existence is not what you are going to get out of life, but what you are going to give to life; to close your book of complaints against the management of the universe, and look around you for a place where you can sow a few seeds of happiness-are you willing to do these things even for a day? Then you can keep Christmas.

Are you willing to stoop down and consider the needs and the desires of little children; to remember the weakness and loneliness of people who are growing old; to stop asking how much your friends love you, and ask yourself whether you love them enough; to bear in mind the things that other people have to bear on their hearts; to try to understand what those who live in the same house with you really want, without waiting for them to tell you; to trim your lamp so that it will give more light and less smoke, and to carry it in front so that your shadow will fall behind you; to make a grave for your ugly thoughts, and a garden for your kindly feelings, with the gate open-are you willing to do these things even for a day? Then you can keep Christmas.

Are you willing to believe that love is the strongest thing in the world-stronger than hate, stronger than evil, stronger than death-and that the blessed life which began in Bethlehem nineteen hundred years ago is the image and brightness of the Eternal Love? Then you can keep Christmas.

And if you keep it for a day, why not always?

But you can never keep it alone.

Henry van Dyke (1852 – 1933) was an American author, educator, and clergyman.

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It’s really still alive?

Sometimes the silliest things make for ongoing discussion at my house.

Pets .. we didn’t have any (well… I did a long time ago but married into allergies which caused me to have to part with a pair of much loved cats…) pets. Didn’t want any pets. Got enough to take care without having to manage a pet too. My mantra to the kids .. when you can show me that you are competent at managing things that are NOT alive (toys, dirty socks, etc…) we can think about a pet.

Well, on a very small scale that changed a couple months ago when son #3 came home with a couple guppies and a snail via the elementary school’s “Opportunity Day”.  I’m thinking .. okay, whatever. Guppies. Hmmm. Dead in a week, forgotten a couple days later.

That was early May. Today, on my kitchen counter, lives a small aquarium. The population of said aquarium is exactly one.  One (perhaps lonely but quite healthy) guppy.  So I was partially right.  But by golly, that one guppy is still hanging in there. Every day, same discussion in the house as to the remarkable longevity of this tiny fish.

So here’s the real deal. Guppies are not frail, they’re just little. They have (under the right conditions) a lifespan that averages about 12 months.  Because they are little, they don’t hold up well to anything that might make them ill, but in general are hardy little guys (and gals..).  Go figure .. I guess we’re pet owners now..

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Answers to Burning Questions of the Faith

Admitted, this is 1) not an answer to any particular question, and 2) probably tilted toward fellow Catholics – though quite honestly, I think the answers at the site probably are to questions posed to Catholics by non-Catholics.  All that aside, rather than answer a question today, I’m just going to point you to one of my favorite answer sites…

Folks, I give you  …… Reverend Know-It-All

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